Super Traits & Toxic Love: Why High-Achieving Women Stay Stuck | Sexual Health

About this episode

Eve and Dr. Jordan Wiggins discuss why high-achieving women often find themselves in toxic relationships and the impact of their 'Super Traits' on intimacy and sexual health.

Welcome to Please Me, the award-winning sexuality podcast hosted by Eve, bringing bold conversations around sexual health, intimacy, and sexual empowerment. In this episode, Eve sits down with Dr. Jordan Wiggins, naturopathic doctor, author of Pink Canary, and host of The Pleasure Principles Podcast. Together they explore why high-achieving women often struggle in toxic relationships and how qualities like empathy, loyalty, and responsibility—what Dr. Wiggins calls “Super Traits”—can drive success while also keeping women stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns. They discuss the connection between trauma, intimacy, libido, and emotional burnout, and why many successful women experience mismatched desire, sexless marriages, or disconnection in relationships despite thriving professionally. This conversation also explores praise kink, emotional labor in relationships, and how “love languages” can sometimes be weaponized when one partner over-functions while the other under-functions. In This Episode • What Super Traits are and how they affect relationships• The connection between trauma and toxic relationship patterns• Why high-achieving women struggle with libido and intimacy•…

People in this episode

Host: Eve

Guest: Dr. Jordan Wiggins

Topics covered

• toxic relationships
• high-achieving women
• sexual health
• intimacy
• emotional labor
• libido
• trauma

Keywords

• high-achieving women
• toxic love
• sexual empowerment
• emotional burnout
• praise kink
• love languages
• chronic stress

Mentioned in this episode

Books & works: Pink Canary, The Pleasure Principles Podcast

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