That's Orgasmic with Sexologist Emily Duncan

In this episode, Emily talks with Amanda Dames, the Kink Consultant, about kink, dominance, and how to explore desires safely and authentically. They discuss: Amanda’s journey from working as a dominatrix to becoming a sexologist and coach Different dominant styles, including soft dom, caretaker, and disciplinarian Why dominance is a skill How to explore kink without pretending to be someone you’re not Consent, negotiation, boundaries, and safe words What to do when partners have different interests in kink Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre Amanda's Links: Website: https://www.amandadames.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thekinkconsultant/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the_kinkconsultant YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thekinkconsultant Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-kink-consultant/id1766435920 Guide for couples with mismatched desire to have more open and honest conversations in a safe framework: https://www.amandadames.com/Speak-Your-Desires-with-Confidence-opt-in-1 BDSM Menu for couples who are curious to explore each other's kinks: https://www.amandadames.com/bdsmlist See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Orgasms are not a finish line - they’re a state of being, and most women/AFAB have been taught the wrong way to access them. Sex and relationship therapist Emily sits down with sensual embodiment coach Emma Swain to unpack why so many people feel blocked, disappointed, or “not orgasmic,” and how to move from pressure and performance into real, sustained pleasure. Emma challenges the idea that orgasm is just a physical peak and breaks it open into something much bigger: emotional release, energetic expansion, nervous system safety, and full-body surrender. If you’ve ever felt like your body “doesn’t work,” only orgasms with one specific method, or rushes straight to a quick climax and drops off, this conversation will shift the way you think about pleasure completely. Emma’s Instagram   Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10   Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: [email protected] Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.