V.I.B.E. Living Podcast

You can do everything “right” and still be told your symptoms are in your head. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Christy Thozer, a menopause specialist, to break down what’s really happening during perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause—and what real care should look like. We unpack the truth about hormone replacement therapy (HRT), clear up the fear from outdated research, and explore how personalized treatment can support everything from symptoms to long-term health like bone and b...

Sleep can feel like the first thing to fall apart in midlife, and the most frustrating part is not knowing why. We sit down with sleep expert Dr Benjamin Long to unpack what actually changes for women after 40, why perimenopause and menopause can disrupt sleep, and why sleep apnea in women is so often missed. If you are exhausted but not a loud snorer, wake up unrefreshed, or feel stuck in a cycle of fatigue and insomnia, this conversation helps you spot the patterns worth taking seriously. ...

Mercury retrograde gets blamed for everything—ghosted texts, tech issues, plans falling apart—but what if it’s not here to disrupt you… what if it’s here to slow you down on purpose? For many women over 40, that pause isn’t a problem—it’s exactly what your body and your life have been asking for. In this episode, I’m joined by Sheila Hawkins, a personal productivity alchemist who blends strategy with astrology, energy, and intuition. We go beyond the surface-level frustrations—miscommunicatio...

Sometimes the deadlines we set for ourselves don’t feel motivating… they feel heavy. In this episode, I’m sitting down with Sunaina Mehta, founder of Design Your Next, and we’re having a real conversation about what success actually looks like when your life—and your energy—starts to shift. We talk about that space so many women find themselves in… where you know something needs to change, but you’re not quite sure what the next step is. And here’s the truth we get into: clarity by itself won...

A scary diagnosis can freeze you in place, especially in midlife when hormones, sleep, energy, and identity already feel like they’re shifting. We sit down with Dayna Wilder, an energy healing practitioner and author, to talk about what happens when you refuse the story that aging means decline and chronic illness means inevitability. Dayna shares how her multiple sclerosis diagnosis pushed her to look beyond symptom management and into root causes like trauma, chronic stress, and nervous sy...

A single question from a five-year-old stopped a suicide attempt and set a new life in motion. From there, Tara Wiskow lost 220 pounds naturally, faced the inner chaos that weight loss didn’t fix, and rebuilt her identity with practical self-love, NLP timeline work, and intuitive energy healing. We dig into the hard truths behind people pleasing, the quiet ways self-sabotage steals midlife joy, and the daily practices that make healing stick. We start with soul-aligned journaling—the decepti...

What if the most powerful career move after 50 starts with a single question: what do I really want now? We dive into that pivot with business mentor and author Patricia Noel Drain, unpacking how women can name their natural gifts, drop perfectionism, and design work that pays and feels right. From classrooms to recruiting to entrepreneurship, Patricia shares the patterns she’s seen for decades: brilliant women who’ve never been asked to define what they do best—and how everything changes whe...

Burnout doesn’t always shout. It shows up as sleepless nights, gut issues, short fuses, and feeling unlike yourself. In this conversation, we unpack why these signals intensify in this season of life—and how anxiety, hormone shifts, and nonstop stress can become a clear path toward calm, energy, and purpose. With trauma-informed leadership expert Dr. Melanie Gray, we explore tools that work: nervous system resets, smarter rest, calendar guardrails, and small micro-habits that rebuild resilien...

Change the script, change the result. We dive into a grounded, grace-filled approach to midlife weight loss that rejects crash diets and embraces sustainable transformation through faith, neuroscience, and simple daily habits. With Dr. Lorette, a cognitive behavioral therapist and minister, we explore how thoughts shape beliefs, beliefs drive feelings, and feelings steer actions—so if you want new outcomes, start where your self-talk begins. We also unpack the role of self-love as a structur...

What if the belief that runs your life isn’t yours at all? Our guest, Tara Wiskow, opens up about losing 220 pounds, battling bulimia, and surviving multiple suicide attempts—only to be pulled back by a five-year-old’s simple question: Are you going to die, mama? That moment didn’t just save her life; it rewired her identity and set her on a path to self-love, deep healing, and purpose. We dig into why so many women in midlife feel stuck despite doing “everything right.” The truth is often h...

Feeling flat, foggy, or stuck in midlife? We dive into the cellular layer of energy and show how smarter hydration, targeted whole foods, and a dash of AI can lift your day-to-day without turning your life upside down. Our guest, wellness entrepreneur and AI content strategist Julie Helmer, shares a clear, empowering path that blends mitochondrial support with simple tools anyone can use. We talk about AI as a real-world helper. Julie shows how to use AI for research with sources, outli...

Shock, denial, panic—then the next test, the next call, the next choice. Our breast cancer series returns to the part most people skip: the emotional cost of diagnosis and the work of rebuilding identity, relationships, and purpose while treatment remakes your life. We open up about the moment a braid on a pillow becomes a new trauma, the decision to shave on your own terms, and why a wig can feel like both armor and weight. From faith to lip kits, from silence to belly laughs, nothing is off...